Robert Carlow

grandad

thinking of u at xmas hope yr happy up there with the angles i miss u so much all ur silly songs and jokes u used to tell me lol well as always i love and miss u love mich xxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

December 29, 2010

grandad

hi grandad thinking of u now and always went 2 ur grave not long ago to clean it up and took u sme fresh flowers but u no that already will come and visit u again soon all my love ur grandaughter michele xxxxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

December 16, 2010

special grandad

hi grandad im so sorry its been so long since ive been on here but over the past year so much has gone on and change in my life well u prob know anyway! time has gone so quick the years are just flying past all the kids are growing up now bailey is 5 he will be 6 this year it makes me feel old lol!! well im going to go now i promise i will write to u again really soon keep telling your jokes up there i bet u have every one in stitches lol!! all my everlasting love your grandaughter michele xxxxxxxxxxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

March 26, 2010

to my great grandad bobby

hey bobby how are you doing ? I really miss you and it is horrible without you although im not standing there waiting to be hit in the head with one of your little yellow ball you used to throw at me x my mum really misses you and jordan you were both a big piece of her life and now your gone she is haf empty but everyday she puts on a brave face for us kids and i dont know how she can do it cuz i find it hard but she does and im proud of her, i love my mum with al my heart and im going to stand by her until the day you meet again and i promise to look after her for you and jordy as long as you look after jordy for me, tell him ilove him all the world x lots of love from your great grandaughter Nic xxxxxxx see you up there soon xxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

January 7, 2009

my grandad

hi grandad how are u? its been a long time since i last wrote 2 u ive been so busy with the children and their schools lol well we are starting to get ready for xmas now i know its that time of year again already the yrs just fly by now hope u and jordan are togeather coz i no u will look after him for me well im gonna go now i will speak 2 u soon all my love ur grandaughter michelexxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

October 28, 2008

grandad

hi grandad how r things up there? chanel left junior school now billy is going into the juniors & bailey also starts nursery in september they all go 2 a really nice new school in chipperfield and they love it wer on holiday @ mo for 2 wks kids having great fun even thou im telling u this u prob already know as ur b watching us all well im gna go nw write 2 u very soon all my love mich xxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

July 25, 2008

dear grandad

we just had your birthday u would of been 88 the pain is still here it will never go away thinking of you every day all my love your grandaughter michele xxxxxxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

March 28, 2008

In Sympathy

So sorry for your loss. My nan passed away last year and it feels like my whole world has been taken away. My thoughts are with you. God bless. I hope you find this poem of comfort, as I have done. x

What is Dying?

A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says 'She is gone'.

Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large now as when I last saw her. Her diminished size and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.

And just at the moment when someone at my side says she is gone there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout 'There she comes!'

That is what dying is. An horizon and just the limit of our sight.

Lift us up, Oh Lord, that we may see further.

Mel Xxxxx (Someone who cares)

January 24, 2008

special grandad

missing you always grandad i miss your smile,jokes and kindness wish you could still be with us your missed so very much i know your in gods garden now and are very happy you are always looking down on me love and miss you always love your grandaugfhter michelexxx

Michele Barrett (Granddaughter)

December 26, 2007

CHRISTMAS BLESSING

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God of compassion, there is such a hole in my heart! Today should be a day of joy, but I feel only emptiness and loss. While the world celebrates around me, I remember Christmas celebrations of the past and I long to have my loved one with me. I bring my sorrows to you, Lord, like some odd gift of the magi and dump them at your feet. In my blind tears I wonder if anyone can possibly understand the depth of my sadness.

I know, you can. You sent your son to be with us in our deepest sorrows and I know that even though I might not feel it now, you are here with me, grieving with me, caring for me in my sadness. Dearest lord, help me to turn to the one I miss so much today and speak. Help me heal the loss of our parting and help me not to regret the things I didn't say. Sorrow tears at my heart, but today I ask that my loss soften my heart and make me more compassionate with everyone I meet, so that my loss may become a gift to others

Pauline Wheeler

December 26, 2007